Is my womanhood measured by the length of my heels?

“I’m not the average girl from your video, and I ain’t built like a super model, but I learned to love myself unconditionally, because I am a queen.” ~India Arie~

Everything about me screams lady. I’m feminine. I’m beautiful. I have a smile to die for. But, I’m not into heels. I’m not into makeup. I wear my hair natural…I like to dress comfortable. This isn’t to say that I don’t carry myself like a lady, but I’m a far cry from your average fashionista. I had to define ladylike for myself, without the influence of the media and my peers.

“Figuring out my own agenda was vital so that I could know that I was in an alignment with my truth.”

At this moment in time, my definition of fashion is wearing what I love and feeling comfortable in what I have on. Continue reading Is my womanhood measured by the length of my heels?